A personal dating service with an emphasis on safety

Welcome to Attractive Partners, an exclusive and traditional dating agency, that has become one of the UK’s leading dating companies over many years, by offering outstanding personal service, privacy, confidentiality and caring for our clients to a standard that few others could achieve.

Attractive Partners

Welcome to our exclusive dating agency, our team is here to help you find your perfect partner.

We do this by being different

By employing a large team of professional personal matchmakers and providing a highly confidential and personal service that is often copied but rarely bettered. Never would the personal details or photographs of our clients ever published on a public website at any time and our service is only ever delivered through our team of friendly personal matchmakers, who ensure that your privacy is always totally protected. 

In the current Covid-19 health crisis, never has our discreet personal service been more in demand. Offering a confidential, personal interview for every client by phone or Skype, with every one of your dates being carefully vetted to ensure that the are 100% genuine and your introductions coming to you initially through a high quality video link – usually personally introduced by your Matchmaker. For you to then take forward if you wish.

So even though words like home working and self isolation have now become everyday vocabulary for many of us, being totally alone doesn’t have to be the norm and developing a relationship, the Attractive Partners way can work and taking your time to get to know someone gradually at first, could be the way forward for you, until it’s safe to meet.


I have tried online Dating but it isn’t for me because…

I’d like to find a company that answers their phone and provides great service at a venue and location that is convenient to me.

We are open 7 days a week and our team is happy to be contacted by telephone on 0800 644 4140 from 9am until 9pm each day, including most bank holidays. We are also happy to meet you in your own home if you prefer.

I’m in a professional career and need confidentiality, I cannot afford to have highly personal details and photographs on a busy, easily accessed, online dating website or app.

Never will your personal details or photographs be on an online site or app, accessed by other members without your permission or the general public under any circumstances.

I am not meeting the right calibre of potential partner online, there are so many people who aren’t who they purport to be.

We carefully vet each and every single member in our database so you can rest assured you will be meeting only people well known to us, who we have interviewed personally.

I want my matches to have been vetted for me and to know that their details are accurate and their photos are all real and recent.

We ensure our database uses only recent and up to date photographs. We also ensure that all of our members are carefully checked out by one of the most comprehensive authentication and verification systems available globally.

I have heard that online dating crime is one of the fastest growing crime categories in the UK, I need to be protected from that.

By using a dating agency like Attractive Partners, that has carefully vetted every member, you will be significantly safer than using online dating or a dating app. Meeting only members that are known personally to us in 100% of cases.

I want to look at professionally created profiles of my potential dates and work with an expert who knows dating and can guide me through.

All of our membership options come with a professionally created profile with recent photographs (often taken by us). Along with the personal help of one of our Personal Matchmakers to guide you through that jungle that dating has become, right throughout the period of your Membership.

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Let’s Find Out A Little More About Each Other…


Smart and successful, you have worked hard to create a great lifestyle. In others, you appreciate strength of character, achievement, and a sense of adventure. You love to be around intelligent, witty people who can inspire you in one moment, and make you laugh out loud in the next.


We understand that a great relationship is part of your recipe for an exciting, fulfilling life. We know how important it is for that relationship to be in keeping with the authentic way you live your life: a true meeting of equals – emotionally, intellectually and, for some, financially.

Find Out What Makes Our Team So Proud

We are still finding that special someone for many of our clients. We have a small hand bell in the office that’s been here since the day that I started. We still always ring it each time we get good news of a match going really well and someone telling us they’ve found love. I will never tire of hearing that bell being rung!

Paula Gotch

Operations Director

A Statement By The Dating Agency Association

Attractive Partners is one of the original founding members of our Dating Agency Association and have had a long standing reputation for being one of the UK’s most respected and popular matchmaking companies.

Our Senior Membership Advisers

Meet our team of experienced dating professionals: Julie Lazurus, Tracey Cater and Elizabeth Hall, who handle almost all of our new membership enquiries. Tracey, Julie and Elizabeth have years of combined experience in helping single men and women of all ages and backgrounds find the dating solution most suited to their hopes, needs and budget.

They are all highly respected experts within the dating industry, are passionate about helping others to find love but perhaps most importantly are nice people to deal with as you gather the information as to whether an Attractive Partners membership could be the right way forward for you and always without any sort of obligation or sales pressure.

For an informal chat about how joining Attractive Partners could transform your personal life call Julie, Tracey or Elizabeth on 0800 644 4140.


Prior to becoming our Senior Membership Adviser, Tracey Cater, who joined us in 2007, has served Attractive Partners as a Matchmaker, Senior Matchmaker and our Matchmaking Team Manager, so she really knows our products, our competitors and the marketplace very well and there really isn’t anyone more suitable or knowledgeable to talk to than her.


Julie Lazarus, joined us in 2013 and since then has handled more enquiries and helped literally hundreds of people change their lives by making the decision to join us – more than any other member of staff. Julie is passionate and almost evangelistic in her role and her belief in the safety and security of what we do, as opposed to joining an online dating site.


Elizabeth Hall, joined us in 2018 after a very successful career as a Consultant in the Motor Industry and Estate Agency. Since then dating and helping our clients find love has become her passion and she has quickly worked her way upwards to become an important part of the Attractive Partners team. She knows our products extremely well and happily gives her advice without obligation.

Latest Articles By Attractive Partners

Kerry Weston – Matchmaker of the Year 2019

Kerry Weston – Matchmaker of the Year 2019

Our second annual Matchmaker of the year award ceremony took place at our recent staff conference at our Head Office in Warwickshire, as the highlight of the agenda. This years competition was adapted to truly reflect the key aspects of the matchmaker role and the...

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Parliamentary Review

This year Dating Options Ltd have been asked by the joint Chairmen of the 2019 Parliamentary Review, Lord Eric Pickles and Lord David Blunkett, to be the Best Practice Representative of the Dating Industry. We feel delighted to have been honoured in this way.