Questions & Answers
Which is the best option for me?
A Personal Introduction Agency or an Online Dating Agency?
A personal dating or professional introduction agency is the best choice for intelligent, professional people who are looking for a confidential service and value quality introductions over quantity. Attractive Partners is probably the best dating/introduction agency in the U.K. for unattached or single people who are seeking someone special for a loving relationship. Everyone who joins Attractive Partners has been interviewed either face to face or by telephone and their identity (name, age and home address) has been checked. If you join us we will take the hard work out of finding you compatible matches. All introductions are carefully selected by our experienced team and as a result, most people enjoy their dates and many hundreds have found their ideal partner through us. However, if you are hoping to meet someone new every week then a personal introduction/dating agency probably isn’t for you. A personal introduction agency isn’t always as expensive as you might think – do check our fees, they are surprisingly competitive for an agency of our standard. In a nutshell, if you are selective about the people you go out with and you want to meet someone really special then why not call us or have another look at our website. Tel: 01789 400677 www.attractivepartners.co.uk
Check out our fees: … surprisingly competitive for an agency of this standard
If you are interested in trying online dating then why not visit our affiliated site www.romance4life.co.uk
So … the choice is yours … whichever you decide, we wish you luck and hope you find exactly what you are looking for.
If you can’t make up your mind which is the best option for you, why not pick up the phone and ask one of the friendly team at Attractive Partners for advice. You will receive a warm welcome and you won’t feel under pressure to join us. Tel: 01789 400677
Who Joins Attractive Partners?
These days it isn’t always easy for anyone, however successful and personable they are to meet unattached people, like themselves. This is the reason why thousands of people, like you, now elect to take a shortcut and enlist the services of a personal introduction agency/dating agency to help them find a compatible partner.
Our members are aged from late 28 to 80 and come from all over the United Kingdom. We also have a few members who live abroad.
We have thousands of members from all types of professional backgrounds including – business owners, accountants, lawyers, farmers, doctors, teachers, property developers, architects, housewives, office managers, interior designers, engineers, artists, nurses, dentists, beauty therapists, models, pilots, photographers, retired people, actors, policemen, firemen, writers, vets, estate agents, brokers, builders, bankers, holiday representatives, and many more besides – but they all have one thing in common – they all want to meet someone special to share their lives.
Do you interview your clients?
Of course – this is an important part of our service. We want to get to know you and need to find out what type of people you wish to meet to ensure that we match you with compatible people.
Relax – This will be the most pleasant “interview” you have ever experienced. One of our specially trained interviewers will ask you questions about yourself and the type of person you wish to meet. Rather than you ticking boxes on a questionnaire, we do the work for you. We find our informal approach very effective in pinpointing the kind of partner who is right for you. You may ask as many questions as you wish – we are here to help you.
The majority of our clients are busy professional people many of them prefer to be interviewed on the telephone. A good telephone interview can more relaxing than one conducted face to face and is just as effective – but the choice is yours.
Will my photograph be shown to anyone?
If you wish you may certainly see a photograph of your prospective partner. However, to preserve your anonymity, we do not send out photographs to other members without your permission.
We always recommend that you speak on the phone first and if you like the sound of each other and wish to exchange photographs, then, with the permission of both parties, we do that for you.
Will my personal details be kept in confidence?
Certainly! Everything you tell us will be treated in the strictest confidence. We are registered with the data protection agency and only limited details as agreed by you will be given to the members selected by us as being suitable matches.
We respect that some clients prefer not to tell their friends and family that they have joined an introduction agency. Whenever we ring you, we will be totally discreet.
Any correspondence we send will arrive in a plain white envelope and your address will be hand-written.
How does the matching process work?
We then begin the most enjoyable part of our work – personally selecting a partner for you.
Firstly we select a short-list of people who have the essential qualities you consider important in a partner. Then, we look at each potential match to ensure that the requirements of both parties are met.
If we find someone whose profile is close to but not exactly what you are looking for – then we will contact you to see if you are happy with our selection. This ensures that all matches you receive are compatible potential partners.
Our members are selective about the people they meet and most of our clients are impressed with the people we choose for them.
How many members do you have in my area/age group?
We have thousands of clients on our nationwide register but the answer to your question depends on your age and where you live – please click here to see if we have clients in your area. For more information regarding how many members we have in your age and other requirements please call us – we will be happy to hear from you.
I would like to see details of a few of your members
Certainly – we have thousands of clients currently seeking a life partner – here are just a few of them…
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How attractive do I have to be?
Attractiveness is not just about your looks. Your demeanour and bearing, your grooming and style, your speaking voice, your ability to amuse and be amused, your willingness to listen, your enthusiasm, your charitableness, your smile, your personality, your ……. we could go on and on. It is your unique combination of these qualities and characteristics that make you interesting to the opposite sex.
You don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous. The very fact that you have taken an interest in an agency daring to call itself Attractive Partners indicates that you are attractive to the opposite sex …..that is the important factor.
Do you have any success stories?
Do you have a head hunting service?
Yes, in order to increase and speed up their chances of meeting a compatible partner some of our members ask us to place a personal advertisement for them in a quality newspaper. The advertisements are designed to target like-minded people whose criteria match their own.
Is this service necessary?
Not usually, but it can be helpful to increase and speed up your chances of meeting a compatible partner, particularly if your circumstances are unusual or you live abroad or in an area with a lower than average population. Before opting for this service, we always recommend that you first give us time to consult our extensive register, as your perfect partner may already be one of our members.
Why ask us to do this for you when you can place your own advert?
When a professional, well-known introduction agency advertises on your behalf, it attracts the right respondents. We have the expertise to interview callers for you. We will identify and consider genuine replies only, thus avoiding any time wasters. Acting as “the middle man”, you will avoid any embarrassment that personal ads can cause, plus you have the peace of mind that your telephone number will only be given out at your request.
This is how it works:
- This service is available to all paid up members.
- We place an advertisement, usually in the Times or the Telegraph and work with you to word the advertisement so that it attracts the type of person you wish to meet.
- We deal with all the administration, receive the phone calls and take time to interview all respondents to see if they are suitable for you. Then we present you with the details of everyone – their age, location, height, build, occupation, interests, level of education, background etc. We will also tell you if we think it is worth you contacting them. If you wish, we can obtain a photograph and proof of their identity.
- The cost of an advertisment in a quality newspaper, plus our administration costs, can be considerable, therefore we ask you to make a contribution. The cost to you can be from as little as £75 depending on the size of the advert and which newspaper you choose. We will give you a quotation to make sure you are happy with the amount.
- The people who respond to your advert will not have to join Attractive Partners in order to meet you and you can meet as many of them as you wish without further cost to you.
We have found in almost every case, a carefully worded advert, placed in the right newspaper can be most effective in producing the desired results – a choice of suitable potential partners.
When you are looking for a partner and really want to achieve a positive result, why leave any stone unturned!
Where do you advertise?
Our advertising budget is huge. We advertise in the Times on Saturday and Sunday, the Telegraph on Friday and Sunday, Country Living, Country life, Horse and Hound and many other quality publications. Occasionally we advertise in local newspapers.
Are there any age limits
Whether they are in their late 20’s or their late 70’s, all our members are attractive for their age and have a happy, optimistic outlook.
When I meet someone I like – what will happen to my membership?
When this happens all you have to do is write to us to ask us to “freeze” your membership. Your file is then “on hold” until we hear from you again.
I am worried about my safety
Joining a reputable introduction agency which insists on proof of identity, is a safer option than meeting a stranger in a pub, wine bar or any other social situation. With Attractive Partners you have the additional safeguard of knowing that every meeting arranged through us is on record.
We understand your concerns and you are sensible to be cautious, whenever you meet someone new. However, the many internet sites and newspaper advertisements which allow people to meet others while remaining entirely anonymous, are the natural haven for people with less than genuine motives.
Attractive Partners gives out only limited details to the people we select for you to meet. We advise all our clients not to divulge their home address or surname to anyone until they feel ready to do so.
After you join you will receive our 16 page membership guide “Make it happen for you” this includes guidelines regarding your personal safety.
If you have any further worries, please give us a call, or mention it during your interview.
I am already a member of another introduction agency – can I join Attractive Partners too?
Of course – any reputable dating agency will be quite happy for you to join as many introduction/dating agencies as you wish. They will want you to meet someone you really like and by joining Attractive Partners as well, you are giving yourself more opportunities.
I don’t want to join an introduction agency yet, but I would like to talk to a life coach / counsellor in confidence.
Expert Advice
If you feel you would benefit from talking in depth to someone about a particular problem – then Jane will almost certainly be able to help you. Jane is a qualified life coach and a fully accredited counsellor (MBACP). She has many years experience helping people to move forward or sort out their relationship problems. Don’t worry! she won’t tell you how to run your life!. She will be more than happy to arrange an appointment with you and talk over any issues you may have. The charge will be £30 for 30 minutes and the guidance/advice you receive will undoubtedly be very helpful, not only with your membership but with all aspects of your life. We all need a little extra help sometimes so don’t be afraid to book an appointment to speak to Jane – she is brilliant!
Are you a member of the Association of British Introduction Agencies and what do they do?
Yes
Attractive Partners Ltd is a member of the Association of British Introduction Agencies and abides by its code of practice. To visit their website click here www.abia.org.uk.
My friends think I am too fussy – is it worth me joining?
We certainly think it is – we are an personal introduction agency for people who are selective about the people they meet and pride ourselves in selecting suitable matches for our clients. No personal introduction/dating agency, not even Attractive Partners, can guarantee to find you a compatible partner but we can assure you that if you do join, we will do everything possible to try to make it happen for you.
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